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Getting pregnant

 Getting pregnant is not easy. It involves multiple factors such as the health of the male and the female, stress, and things you used or eat.

We had pre-marital checkup so we know health is not a show stopper. However, after trying for few months with no good news, we sat down and think what could have went wrong. Of course, old wives practise of putting your bum up after intercourse had also been tried but still nope. (When you are trying to conceive, you will tend to try everything)

Finally, we thought of the lubricant that we have been using. A quick research confirmed our suspicions..vaginal lubricants are not sperm friendly*!

We can't totally do away with lubricants and were scratching our head. Further research led us to trying Pre-Seed Fertility Lubricant, a lubricant that uses sperm safe formula.

Sure enough, 1 month after the switch, i saw the long awaited 2 blue lines 😊

So ditch all over-the-counter vaginal lubricants, best is don't use any external products. But if you really have to, try Pre-Seed Fertility Lubricant, from my personal experience.

*Source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6516666/

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